I mean, you should say “Can you stop touching my boobs for like 5 seconds, I really wanna finish watching BECAUSE I SAID SO STARRING MANDY MOORE AND DIANE KEATON” and if he’s all ‘come on baby…’ you should yell ‘NO YOU COME ON, BABY’ and then he’ll be confused and he’ll stop.
Amen. It’s like…here’s the thing. When the boy begs, you need to look him in the eye, snarl your upper lip and say, “Get it together, this is the BIGGEST TURN OFF.” Sure, sometimes you can just watch Season 3 of Weeds and let him play with your boobs just to keep him quiet, but the bigger issue is that you need to remain attracted to him if you want the relationship to work.
The thing about sex is that when you have to talk about it too much it starts to lose its appeal. Tell him that. Try out new approaches with him, so you both get to a place where you can’t keep your hands off of each other. Here’s a thought: tell him that you want to go one week without doing anything more than kissing. If he pouts like an idiot and is like “BUT BLAH BLAH NIPPLES AND BLUE BALLS AND BOOBS WAHHHHH,” then just explain that he is acting like an idiot, and making out can be the fuckinnnng besssttttttt. He can deal with his blue balls on his own time for a week, you know?
Hopefully, in a week’s time, he will learn a little bit about how patience can equate to some pretty hot sexytime. Bottom line: if you tell him, seriously, that you need him to cool off and he still continues to whine, you are headed down the path to break-up land. If he has the ability to listen to you, he will want to work together with you so that you are both on the same page.