April 2010
29 posts
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Anonymous asked: Let me try this again. Its not my friend I was talking about its me. Im gay. Been gay for a while now...In a relationship, also for a while now. 2 years to be exact. Great girl, great relationship. But when I pleasure myself, I usually think about guys doing the pleasuring. What is that all about? Advice please gay gurus.
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Anonymous asked: I'm gay... Does that make me gay?
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Anonymous asked: So I've come to terms that I am attracted to girls, but I'm too afraid to act on my feelings because I have never been in a "long-ish" heterosexual relationship. Am I bisexual? What should I do?
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thisisinstyle asked: what happens when you find your soul-mate, and then you lose them? where do you go from there? when you know with absolute certainty that you have found the one person you are supposed to spend the rest of your life loving? your heart is forever in their chest, your fate in their hands. i mean, i guess what i'm saying is, how the fuck do you bounce back from losing your "one and...
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Anonymous asked: Was there a point in either of your lives where you were just straight-up confused about who or what you wanted, or did you just always know? What do you guys think is the best advice for a person who's super confused? I mean, should they just roll with it or what?
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Anonymous asked: So, us gays have had some problems with the neo-nazis around these parts. Should I carry a gun or a switch blade? If yes, should I wear it so it's visible or should it be a surprise? What's the perfect thing to say to a nazi so that he/she won't jump me? Thnx
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justsomeapples-deactivated20110 asked: I have this problem where I'll like a girl/think she's cute/blah blah blah blah & then figure out she's straight. I'm not even sure what my question is, but this sux, huh? :(
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Anonymous asked: When people ask my why I haven't told my parents I tell them because I know that my parents will disown me. I strongly believe this but my friends who have really healthy relationships with their parents judge me a bit and say I'm overreacting (tho they've never met my parents). I'm scared to tell my parents and feel like it's a dumb idea. What do you think?
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Anonymous asked: All my friends know I'm gay. My mom, the only parent I have, and my sister know as well. So do my grandparents. No one else in my family knows, for sure, but a few of them have asked my mom and sister about my sexuality...I'm just really nervous to be out to my extended family, on one hand I want them to know so they stop asking me if my best male friend is my boyfriend, on the other,...
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I found out that my 19-year old nephew is gay...
Dannielle Says:
There is literally nothing worse than feeling scared and alone and like your entire family is against you, even if you don’t know their reactions yet, that feeling blows. So, my immediate reaction is to tell you to go to him and let him know you are there for him in anyway he needs you. Sometimes it rules to have a grown up you can talk to. At the same time, this is an...
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Anonymous asked: What age did you realize your sexuality? What age did you come out?
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Anonymous asked: Have you ever personally fallen victim to homophobia?
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Anonymous asked: Did you lose any friends when you came out?
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So, I think I'm gay. Alas, I have no one in real...
Dannielle Says:
I would like to take a moment to thank you for trying to write more than Kristin and I….jerk…Anyway. CALM DOWN THIS IS COMPLETELY NORMAL. Sometimes I think boiz are so dreamy I can’t handle it, but I know for a fact I don’t want their peewee’s in me…you know? I think what a lot of people don’t understand is this…
You don’t...
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Anonymous asked: I dated this girl for about a month and she's really great, but she's a horrible kisser. I had just broken up with my girlfriend and it was messy and, probably mostly for the fact that making out wasn't fun, I told her I didn't want to keep seeing her because I wasn't feeling it. It's been 2 months and I've seen her again twice this week (we work together, just...
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How old were you when you knew you were gay? I am...
Dannielle Says:
I didn’t know anything about myself until I was more than halfway through college. The first girl I dated or even thought about as more than a friend happened after I ended my sophomore year. Being a gaywad wasn’t even an option or an idea when I was growing up. I didn’t even know a gay until I was in college. Then I knew OH SO MANY.
When I look back on my life...
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Anonymous asked: my feelings for my girlfriend go back and forth. some days i feel so lucky to have her, others i don't know why i'm with her. we have more bad days rather than good lately. it's only been four months, two of which she told me i've been a shitty girlfriend. i feel like it's unfair to her that i'm unsure, she knows this, but she insists on sticking it out. i feel like...
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kamikazelove asked: In my group of friends, they always make such a big deal about me being gay. They bring it up in almost every conversation. If I tell them that they should tone it down a bit, they get offended. They take it as i'm saying they aren't good to gay people or something. How do I tell them to leave my gayness alone without offending them?
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I'm 19 and I'm gay. I've only had one serious...
Dannielle Says:
Do you realize you’re basically saying “I only wanna d8 someone i lyke!!” …. That makes perfect sense to me. Sane, Calm, Loyal, gay guys between the ages of 18-25 who aren’t always drunk, high or dancing are really hard to come by. OK I’M BEING STEREOTYPICAL, but still, don’t feel like every relaysh you get into has to be marriage-ready. Just like someone when you like them and...
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I'm a 100% straight guy in his mid 20's. I've had...
Dannielle Says:
I’ve realized recently something new called ‘hipstersexual’ basically you wanna bang girls with short hair and thick rimmed glasses. THIS IS NOT ALWAYS A LESBIAN. Also, anytime you try to ‘convert’ anyone to ANYTHING. it makes you an asshole. So, keep that in mind. Oh, also, follow your heart.
Kristin Says:
What Dannielle said.
Also, there is a big difference between being...
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My girlfriend broke up with me. I'm not over it...
Dannielle Says:
She’s a total whore and you can do better (i’m assuming). Listen to ‘Simple Together’ by Alanis Morisette, ‘Glass’ by Ingrid Michaelson, ‘Keep it Clean’ by Camera Obscura, ‘Breathe’ by Taylor Swift, ‘Call it Off’ by Tegan and Sara, and ‘If it’s the Beaches’ by The Avett Brothers. Cry a lot and when you see her pretend like you’re totally fine. Eventually you will move on, but...
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alylovescali asked: i only like female dogs. am i gay?
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Anonymous asked: I'm recently coming to terms with my sexuality as a lesbian. Problem is I'm deeply religious and so is my family and the college I'm at is a Christian one (and I love it). If I come out, I could be disowned by my family and kicked out of school. So I'm kind of in an awkward position. I don't want to hide who I am, but it seems to be my only option right now. Also, I'm...
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do you consider it a 'responsibility' to be 'out'...
Dannielle Says:
One of my really close friends once told me ‘to each his own.’
I don’t think it is anyone’s responsibility EVER. I think everyone has the right to keep their private lives private. I have intense discussions about this all the time, but the fact is, it really effects your career/life in an intense way. I don’t ever want people to like me SIMPLY for...
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I'm really close to my parents but am having a...
Dannielle says:
Well, part A, it’s hard for everyone, of course it was hard for me. Part B, it should be easier because you’re close to them. Chances are they have an idea, but there’s something really off about saying ‘hey son or daughter are you a gay’ so they probably feel even weirder than you do. And I’m super close with my parents (my dad especially)...
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Do you honestly think Kristen Stewart is straight?
Dannielle Says:
I mean. 1. why does it matter? 2. I don’t mean to get all srs on you, but i don’t really like commenting on ppls sexuality, bc it’s not my business and if she says she’s str8, she’s str8. Who are you to tell her who she luvz, ya know?
Kristin Says:
See, here’s the thing. The movie in your mind can posit her sipping a cocktail at...
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what is your sexual orientation?
Dannielle Says:
Here’s the thing. I hate this question. HATE it. I’m not trying to hide anything. anyone who knows me even a little bit knows who i like to date and people who know me a lot a bit know exactly who date and why i date or don’t date them. It bothers me how much it matters to a ton of strangers. You guys. Love is love. That’s all. Nothing else should...
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I just broke up with my two girlfriends, yes, two....
Dannielle Says:
I think you should focus on having one girlfriend. I’m sure it was mutual and I’m sure it was great, but if you think you suck at relationships, maybe having two at once isn’t the best idea? When people say they suck at relationships, I always assume that means they haven’t met the right person. Once you meet the person you’re supposed to be with...
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Have you ever had sex in a public place, and if...
Dannielle Says:
I mean, do you care how disrespectful you are to everyone around? NewsFlash to the world: No one likes to see you making out/ touching/ feeling up your S.O. ##getaroom
Kristin Says:
Why would you choose an uncomfortable, more-than-likely-disease-ridden public location when you could be in a soft, comfortable bed? Beds are so awesome.
That being said, if the choice is sex in...
