July 2010
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OMG Podcast?!?!?!
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June 2010
44 posts
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Anonymous asked: I'm single now for the first time in over 3 years and I'm having difficulty approaching gay girls. Do you have any advice as to how to approach a girl without looking like a huge creeper?
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Anonymous asked: So I've always kind of felt I was gay, but I told myself that I couldn't knock dicks before I tried them. So I've had one boyfriend. He was totally in love with me, and I'll admit, I loved him (at one point) too. But since him I've definitely realized I like girls. Now, I'd rather he hear that I'm gay from me and not through the grapevine, but how do I tell him...
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Anonymous asked: this might be lame, WHAT EXACTLY IS LESBIAN SEX? what do you do. how do you do it. how should it be brought about. help? please.
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Anonymous asked: Why is 'coming out' so important? I feel like people around me put way too much stock in naming what they are, rather than just being it. Is it too hard for people to just BE what they are, rather than announcing it?
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Anonymous asked: So I've been with one woman, we're both young, and somehow never talked about or used protection (dental dam). The idea seemed to be like, "hey we can't get pregnant or anything so who cares?!" plus we didn't think it would feel very good with it. I've asked some of my other lez-friends and they don't really use protection either. Is that normal, or are we...
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Anonymous asked: I'm a girl who sleeps with girls, but I can't HOOHOO (er, orgasm). Like, ever. Not by myself, not with another girl, never. It sucks so much because I totally love sex and have a super high sex drive, but because no tension is ever released, I get stomach aches and major sadness and frustration. I can get really close to coming, but I can't go over the falls, and then I can just...
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Anonymous asked: Sorry, sorry, this isn't a quesh. This is in response to a post from a couple days ago, one where someone was asking about a person who had fucked them over and you guys both complained/joked about the lack of pronoun in the question. I was kind of surprised by that reaction given the awesomeness of some of your answers in the past. Anyway I feel like you probably know all this but my point...
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Anonymous asked: because of you, I can't read the word 'bone' without thinking that it means sex
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Anonymous asked: have you girls ever had to deal with self-injury? My friend self-harms and I'm the only one who knows and I feel quite scared for her. I know this isn't really a gay-specific topic, but I don't know who to ask.
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Hello, Internet!
Kristin and Dannielle are thinking of doing something CRAZY and answering some of your awesome questions using their VOCAL CHORDS instead of their FINGERS. Gross.
What we mean is, we are going to be doing a recorded podcast! Here is what we need from you:
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Anonymous asked: I'm a happily bisexual female who has had amazing relationships with women, and for a long time believed I would end up with one. However I'm about to get engaged to a man who comes from a very homophobic Muslim culture. He is very small-minded and hateful of all things "gay" and we are unable to even have a civil discussion about it. I feel personally attacked, and he...
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Anonymous asked: So I met this lesbian who asked me if I was one of "those trans people," and I said, yes, I'm a trans guy. And she said, "Oh, I think that's so cool, that's so interesting. I think you're doing a good job, look at you, all dressed up like a man. You look cute!" She was flirting with me, and undermining my identity at the same time. How do you respond to...
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Anonymous asked: I'm a girl who has only ever had sex with men. I'm really attracted to women but I've never had sex with one and the thought of it makes me nervous.
My stupid question is: when does lesbian sex end? With guys, they have a pretty set endpoint, but with girls (for me, at least) I can keep going and orgasm a ton. Do you have to just awkwardly be like "uhh done...
My stupid question is: when does lesbian sex end? With guys, they have a pretty set endpoint, but with girls (for me, at least) I can keep going and orgasm a ton. Do you have to just awkwardly be like "uhh done...
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Anonymous asked: The girl I'm in love with just got out of a two year relationship. Her girlfriend had been cheating on her for seven months (with me, actually) and she's angry, hurt, and confused. The good news is she's talking to me, and we're kind of semi-together. I know this all sounds very shady, but it was a really awful situation and doesn't hold it against me. How should I...
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Anonymous asked: I'm not really good at putting myself out there, or talking about my problems much because I am supposed to be the rock all my friends go to. But I have a problem, and there is no one I can talk to. You see, I don't like men. I don't like women either. I have crushes, but they never go beyond friendship for me. Ever. I've had to turn down three of my good friends because they...
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Anonymous asked: my girlfriend and I want to start a family and we decided I would be the one to carry the first child. We're considering our options for sperm donors amongst our friends so the child can know its biological father. BUT and here is a big but, my girlfriend keeps suggesting and lately she is getting more persistent that we ask her gay brother to donate. she figures then the child will be...
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Anonymous asked: Right, so I'm totally down with liking girls (no pun intended), but I always seem to find myself attracted to girls older than me. I'm only 19, and I usually go for girls between 25-30. Just out of interest (and in your opinion), how much of an age gap is too much?
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Anonymous asked: I have always made it a point to be true to myself. Even though I live in the biblebelt and sometimes have to deal with "h8rs" I am not shy or ashamed of my gayness (gaydom? gayish nature? penis?). Recently, a friend of mine said to me that she thinks she likes girls. I told her that she didn't need to label herself, and that whatever she feels is right is what she should do, and...
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Anonymous asked: Do you think some people choose to be gay? I mean I understand for most people (I've even felt attracted to a few females) it's completely normal/natural/etc, but do you think there are people that choose gay because they want to shake up their social circle or seem cool/interesting/exciting/etc?
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Anonymous asked: NOT JOKING. LISTEN. I used to date a boy, for a few years. Although he was shy....and a little girly, I never thought anything of it. THEN. I moved across the country. He moved home shortly after. HAVENT HEARD FROM HIM SINCE. NO ONE. has heard from him since. not even his close friends. He just became friends with a boy who is blatantly gay. and who also, looks, EXACTLY like him. Do you think,...
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Anonymous asked: Okayyy, so I'm absolutely in love with my best friend in the world. She came out to me as bi already, and she knows I'm a lesbian, and she acts like she likes and I would quite honestly go to the end of the world for her, but I'm terrified that if I act on it, I'm going to lose my best friend. Any suggestions?
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Anonymous asked: I don't know if I would identify as butch, but I am very masculine looking and am pretty much always read as a male. This makes using public lavatories/locker rooms/changing rooms incredibly difficult for me, and I was wondering if either of you could possibly help me at all. Not being able to pee anywhere other than my or a friend's house without being harassed is really difficult,...
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Anonymous asked: So I had feelings for someone who completely fucked me over but then wanted to remain friends. Now they constantly complain about how others treat them like shit and are bitches and assholes, and its a bit disconcerting and makes me a tad bitter. Not to mention I have to listen to it ALL THE TIME. Its drives me crazy considering they had a platter in front of them and ignored it. Its like skipping...
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Anonymous asked: I hat gays sorry
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Anonymous asked: I am a cisgender woman. My boyfriend is a transgender man. He likes boys and I like girls and we love each other. Is there a word for that? Can you make one up? Thanks.
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Anonymous asked: I have this problem, I'm undateable. dont get me wrong im attractive, goal oriented, and friendly. but i get the same reason everytime a girl wont date me is "youre just...too weird"
I'm not a creep or anything. im just awkward, kind of a bumbling idiot, Michael Cera type.
no matter how hard i try all i get is "your just too wierd"
I'm not a creep or anything. im just awkward, kind of a bumbling idiot, Michael Cera type.
no matter how hard i try all i get is "your just too wierd"
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Anonymous asked: Please tell me this all gets easier.
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Anonymous asked: okay SO. this is super awks to ask buuuuuut... is it normal to watch porn? i mean like, just sexy videos in general. i do, but i'm superrrrr embarrassed&unsure about it. but i watch classy stuff, not nasty-fake-ewwzy stuff. anyway, when i was in my last relaysh, the laydeh found out aaaand well yeah didn't go over so smoothly... so, my quesh(s) is(/are): am i normal??? how would you...
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Anonymous asked: I've been dating my boyfriend for about two years, but I'm not as happy as I could be, and I don't think I'm in love with him. I tried to tell him I wanted a break but he started crying and so I just said that everything was ok and dropped it. But I flirt with of other boys, I like another boy, and I kissed another boy (all secretly – I know, I'm bad and I hate it)....
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girlinabeanie-deactivated201005 asked: There's this guy at my school that i hate for so many reasons, he's racist, homophopic, conservative asshole, hates woman, and he's loud as hell. I wouldn't even pay attention to him but he sits a table away from me at lunch and I hear everything he says and it makes me mad and makes me want to punch him in the teeth, but I'm not really violent, I like to be smart with...
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Anonymous asked: I've been taking an androgynous approach with looks lately.I'm seriously LOVING it. I haven't exactly came out to my family yet, but I think they're starting to get the memo. Lately, dad has been getting me to do lots of the handy work.
Up until now, I was 'his little girl' and he usually never asked me for favors, now I'm stuck at home with a...
Up until now, I was 'his little girl' and he usually never asked me for favors, now I'm stuck at home with a...
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Anonymous asked: Today a "friend" of mine announced to the whole friggin' world (aka my school) that I am a lesbian.
Firstly, I am actually bisexual. Way to get your facts wrong.
Secondly, I am, or rather was, in the closet to all but five very close friends who figured it out on their own because they have super-sensitive gaydars, and I really don't want to be dragged out of the...
Firstly, I am actually bisexual. Way to get your facts wrong.
Secondly, I am, or rather was, in the closet to all but five very close friends who figured it out on their own because they have super-sensitive gaydars, and I really don't want to be dragged out of the...
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Anonymous asked: Whall, hi. This is quite a coincidence, because my gf has this theory that, quite literally, every (woman) is gay. I have to admit, I'm tempted to agree, then nuzzle her cutely, because both of those things are relevant to my interests... but! ask-you-anything-time: is that a) an interesting theory or 2) not so great in that it kind of silences the rest of the gamut of sexual identities?...
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Anonymous asked: I'm incredibly happy with my current girlfriend, but a girl from my past has just popped up again and I can't stop thinking about her. She's flirting non-stop with me and I'm slipping into it myself. Please help? I really like her. :(:(:(
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Anonymous asked: Hey ladies, I really appreciate all of your posts.
Alright, here's my embarrassing question. I'm a virgin but I'm going to college next year and I'm pretty sure I'm going to loose my virginity...but the sex ed classes I've taken in high school completely disregard same-sex relations and I feel unprepared. How do you take precautions against HIV, etc?
Alright, here's my embarrassing question. I'm a virgin but I'm going to college next year and I'm pretty sure I'm going to loose my virginity...but the sex ed classes I've taken in high school completely disregard same-sex relations and I feel unprepared. How do you take precautions against HIV, etc?
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Anonymous asked: lately, everything my girlfriend has been doing is turning me on. i know you're probably wondering; how is that a bad thing? but truthfully, i'm embarrassed. now even just cuddling or a short make out sesh makes me really wet. and whenever she notices this she says it's sexy, but i'm not that convinced. i feel like a little boy who has a boner all the time, and it's not...
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justsomeapples-deactivated20110 asked: here's my quesh! okay, so i'm kind of a ~big girl~, and i wasn't bullied in school or anything because of my weight, but my confidence still isn't very boombangin'. from my experience so far, there are a lot of lesbis who aren't too into us bigger girls & are in fact kind of grossed out by us. it's like...hurtful i guess, but more discouraging than anyone...
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Anonymous asked: Okay, I have a problem. My girlfriend's birthday is coming up, and I am a HORRIBLE gift-giver. I'd get her a gift card, but I hate giving gift cards cuz then I feel like an uncaring jerk. She's crazy hyper and loves anime, and she hates mushy stuff (goddammit why doesn't anybody like walking on the beach anymore? It's FUN!) ... any gift ideas?
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Anonymous asked: Earlier this year, I told my mom I was gay, you know, just to get her off my case 'bout dudes. She was cool about it, as I anticipated, but is it wrong for me to think she's being too supportive? I know I'm blessed, but she told most of my extended family, without me there, and I don't think that is an appropriate topic of conversation since I'm not in a relationship with...
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Anonymous asked: There is this girl I've been involved with for a while, and we're getting close. But she's leaving for the Army, and she wants a relationship. I'm too scared to be with her because I don't want to be the reason they kick her out of the army. Her recruiter was already asking questions about her sexuality and she had to lie. She told me I'm worth the risk, but I...
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comeondaddy asked: My friend and I have started a GSA in our school and we've made it mostly so we could chill with people who believe in similar thing as us. The thing is we have no idea how to introduce this idea to oncoming freshmen or just students in general next year, we also wanted to have club activities but we're stuck on what to do, do you ladies have anything to suggest?
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Anonymous asked: Have you ever been with a girl who was a "squirter?" If so, was it awkward? How did you handle the situation?
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Anonymous asked: My gf is a photographer doing a pretty high profile project on strictly glbt personalities. Everyone around her like family and our circle of friends knows shes gay. Ive become the annoying frustrated gf because.. on her blog/website people are always asking or suggesting/alluding to questions like do you have a gf? are you gay? etc. but she doesnt want her own preference to interfere with the way...
