August 2010
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Anonymous asked: I came out when I was 14. I'm 24 now and hate that I have to KEEP coming out whenever I meet someone new. (I feel like it's so obvious...) Is there a way to avoid the never-ending revolving closet door?
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Anonymous asked: Heyy, well um I'm 16 and my boyfriend asked me if we could have sex for his birthday and while I want to I don't know if it's right to do it at 16... what do you think is the right age to have sex?
-Love your blog, from Chelsea.
-Love your blog, from Chelsea.
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Dannielle Says:
“Apparently Courtney Love is a Bitch”
So, I went to dinner with Tulip* and two adorable boiz last night. It was the best. They’ve been together for 11 years and they totally still like each other. Not in an obligatory way. Like, there are couples that have been together forevs and they love each other or whatevs, but you can tell they’re in love b/c they...
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Anonymous asked: How can I tell a 9-year-old that calling someone gay is mean and still explain to him that it's not an insult?
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My sister and I are going to a Tegan and Sara...
Dannielle Says:
Tell her to yell ‘OMG TEGAN’
Kristin Says:
Seriously. I think you pretty much have it at, “My sister and I are GOING TO A TEGAN AND SARA CONCERT.”
Happy Formspring Friday, kids. For more answers where we just don’t give a shit, come on over to www.formspring.me/advicemyass
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Anonymous asked: my sister is getting married next summer and chose me to be her maid of honor. while i'm extremely excited for her and flattered that she chose me to have such a grand title, i am pissed i have to wear a dress. in my head i have always identified as male and usually dress as such. should i just suck it up and wear the dress for my sister or try and explain to her that i will be in emotional...
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Anonymous asked: Hi, my 15 year old son recently told me he was gay. I’m a widower and single father of 5 other young children. We don’t have a good relationship and he told me in mid-argument. I've tried to talk to him, but he refuses to. I know he's having a hard time right now as were all religious and thought i’d think it a sin. He's my son, i love him! How do I make him feel...
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Anonymous asked: Soooooo. At what stage in a very happy, loving, totally committed ltr is it ok to casually bring up the idea of a threesome?
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Personal Post Paturday
Dannielle Says:
So, this week I started working in an office, not as a job, but like borrowing space and equipment from a friend who owns a company. It literally has been making my life the past few days. I hate sitting in my dumb apartment and trying to edit or update my blog b/c like, I feel like I’m doing nothing, even if I am doing something. PS i am 100% sitting in my apt right now....
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Anonymous asked: Dear Kristin and Dannielle,
You should make some fun new changes to your website and take Sundays off!
Signed, Not Kristin or Dannielle
You should make some fun new changes to your website and take Sundays off!
Signed, Not Kristin or Dannielle
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Anonymous asked: How long should you wait to move on after a break-up? I'm trying to date people but I'm finding it really hard to let go of my exgf...even though our relationship was pretty bad at the end.
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Anonymous asked: How do you do (or not do) sex when you or your girl's on her period? Gross...I know, but I'm also really curious.
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Anonymous asked: So how do you ask someone if they've been tested without making them feel like you don't want them?
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Anonymous asked: I suck at first dates. Like, "Hey wanna go to the aquarium with me?" level of suck. Any recommendations for destinations? Or like, successful date stories? I'll take anything.
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Anonymous asked: I love women. I also love God. I dream of someday finding "That" wonderful woman who I will be with and love for the rest of my life. Problem? All of the lesbians I know are atheists and mock my spiritual views. Should I compromise my spirituality (or just keep it all inside and never share it) in order to find a girl? Why does it seem like every other gay hates God?
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Anonymous asked: So, I know you're both girls, but I figure I should be like "whatevs" and just ask. So I'm a gay male, I'm dating another male [haha go figure derp] but anyways. We do the whole sha-bang-bang if you get what I am saying, which finally leads me to my questions. Every time we've boned I've been the one getting boned. So recently my boyfriend has hinted that he may...
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Anonymous asked: I've always known I am bisexual and just recently came fully out of the closet to all my friends and family. The problem is, I get the following comment a lot: "So you like girls? I get it, it's really trendy right now." How do I explain with polite sass that it isn't all Lindsay Lohan and Katy Perry vaginawashing me?
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WANT YOUR GAY FACE ON OUR WEBSITE?!
Dannielle and Kristin are cooking up some ideas for future webcasts, and some of them involve you.
What we mean to say is this:
Make a video of you, or of you and your friend, or of you and your dog and your dog’s friend, and ask us an advice question via video!! Post your video to YouTube and email us the link over at info@everyoneisgay.com!
We will review submissions and you may just...
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Anonymous asked: Alright so... flatulence. Farting. I would go on a spiel about it, but really I just want to ask. When is it okay to fart in the presence of your girlfriend? Is it different for how gross the fart is going to be? Do you have to call it a toot?
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Anonymous asked: How do I get my shit back from my fucking ex?
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Anonymous asked: All of my friends are getting married and I'm just getting drunk. Is this normal for a 26 year old gay girl?
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Anonymous asked: Is it smart to dorm with your girlfriend in college?
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Anonymous asked: Do you guys think it's important to see qualities of yourself in the person you're dating?
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Anonymous asked: So I have a gay-best-friend who is amazing, he's fabulous, he's the perfect person to bounce ideas off of. But sometimes his flamboyance and enthusiasm is so overwhelming, it's obnoxious. Plus he sometimes kind of goes over the line when he jokes around, and it would seriously creep me out if a straight guy did the same things to me. How do I deal with this guy? I love him to death,...
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Anonymous asked: My girlfriend and I have only been dating for a few months, but we both feel like we've been together for ages. I feel myself falling for her, and I want to tell her that I think I might be in love with her, but she uses the word "love" verrryy carefully. I don't want to scare her, or have her think I'm serious about my feelings, but I also really want to be honest with...
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Anonymous asked: My girlfriend of two years and i recently broke up. I feel very liberated, but since we went out for so long, we pretty much have the same friends. Every time I go out with my girls, my ex seems to show up. How do I hang out with my friends without the awkwardness of running into my ex?
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Anonymous asked: recently decided that i like girls and wouldn't mind waking up next to a total cutie, but officially i'm still in the undecided column. in three weeks i'm moving away to college and will be sharing a closet sized dorm with my straight roommate whom i have never meet in person. i kinda feel like i want to be sure of myself before i say anything but i also feel like i don't want...
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Anonymous asked: Im straight but my best friend is gay. She has developed a crush on me and I don't know how to say that I don't see her like that even if she is one of the most absolutely beautiful people I've ever met. What should I tell her?
