September 2010
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Anonymous asked: I'm a 21-year-old female student and have feelings for another girl, really strong feelings that are far beyond friendship. But I don't want to be lesbian, I want these feelings to go away! I'm so desperate. What should I do now?
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Anonymous asked: I've been dating a great girl for about 2 years now, and I said I loved her early on in the relationship. Now I don't know if I feel that way, or if I really meant it when I said it. I feel dishonest continuing the relationship with her as it is, but I don't want to just break up. I'm still working out how I feel and what I want, but I don't want to hurt her. ...
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Anonymous asked: Danielle and Kristin; please advise asap. In yesterdays webcast were you deliberately making fun of the band Hanson? They are incredibly talented and ever since I was a wee baby lezzie in 1997 I have loved them. Since watching your webcast several hours ago I am now losing sleep thinking about your song choice and performance. I am probably being paranoid and you probably love them as much as...
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Dannielle Says:
So, let me tell you something about France (canada). My friend, Lauren (shemakescake), and I went to Montreal this weekend (tuesday-thursday) and yesterday she decided she wanted to rent a bike to ride for 6 minutes. I approve, b/c I love bikes. I rent this bike for her (i love bixi, you guys), and she rides around for 5 minutes, almost gets hit by two cars and parks the bike.
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Anonymous asked: how inappropriate would it be to come out to my mom via text message? i live with her by the way.
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ok so very personal question...who would u rather...
Dannielle Says:
I KNOW, RIGHT?!
Kristin Says:
I feel like asking for bone marrow from either of them would be awkward.
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Happy Formspring Friday, cheeseplates! If you want to read some more cheeky chit-chat, come on over to www.formspring.me/advicemyass
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Anonymous asked: How do you politely ask a girl if she straight or not without seeming nosy?
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Anonymous asked: If a girl(who you know likes ladies, and who knows that you like ladies too) asks you to hang out, how do you know if it's just as friends or something more than that?
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Anonymous asked: So, I'm a girl... I have found my boyfriend watching gay/bi porn twice now. He says he has thought about it, but he is not gay and wants to continue our relationship like nothing happened.. but I can't get over it. What is your profesh les opinion? Personally, I think he is just scared to come out. :)
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Anonymous asked: You two may not realise this, but there are different time zones in the world! My point is, I live in New Zealand so when you have you're Sunday off, I have had a long, hard Monday and miss your awesome advice when I get home. This quite upsets me :(
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Dannielle Says:
This weekend I traveled to Chicago to play with my all-girl improv team. It was our 2 yr anniversary. My friend, Blythe, flew me out there as a surprise for the other girls. It was epic. There was screaming and crying and overall elation. I’ve never felt so loved.
It’s weird. I think we constantly search for perfection, you know? The perfect job, the perfect partner, the perfect...
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Anonymous asked: How can I tell my girlfriend that I want to occasionally be gay with men and not have her dump me?
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Anonymous asked: How many questions do you two still have to answer on your site?
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Anonymous asked: First of all, I'm a virgin. I'm crazy attracted to the ladies. The thought of doing anything with a guy from kissing to...penisy things is really unsavory. BUT, when I do have sex, I would really really love it to involve strap-ons. Does this make me a bad lesbian (or a non-lesbian)? Would a girl be weirded out or offended if I was essentially asking her to pretend to have a penis?
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Anonymous asked: So, I have this friend who claims to not be a whore. She claims to have only made the sex with one guy. HOWEVER, she goes to parties and makes out with multiple guys and girls, and sucks dick like no other, but when someone calls her a whore, she simply says "I HAVE ONLY BEEN WITH ONE BOY EVER". How do I explain to her that she's a slut without her slitting my throat while I sleep?
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Anonymous asked: hey guys!
i've been dating this guy for a few weeks now and been on 2 dates. hes a nice guy and i'd like to see how it goes, but im just a bit scared we're going too fast! how can i tell him without hurting his feelings of giving the wrong impression?
i've been dating this guy for a few weeks now and been on 2 dates. hes a nice guy and i'd like to see how it goes, but im just a bit scared we're going too fast! how can i tell him without hurting his feelings of giving the wrong impression?
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Dannielle Says:
“OJ with pulp”
I had this whole post written up about how i can’t fucking stand it when people are ignorant, but I deleted it. I don’t want to give any more time and energy to those people b/c they don’t deserve it.
BESIDES I WANT TO TELL YOU GUYS ABOUT HOW I’M SICK. Yesterday AM I woke up in that haze you wake up in where your whole body is...
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Anonymous asked: Dannielle and Kristin, never forget: the vast majority of people is NOT gay. And we (straight) people make the rules. You will only have a chance to live a peaceful life if you obey them and stop being gay. Got it?
By the way, I can understand that when you're young you want to have fun and try out new things, but growing older and still being lesbian is just awkward. All your...
By the way, I can understand that when you're young you want to have fun and try out new things, but growing older and still being lesbian is just awkward. All your...
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Anonymous asked: Two things you could never live without?
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WatchWebcast Seven. We thought it was Webcast Six, and I had a whole joke about changing letters so it could be Webcast Sex, but then I recounted and the whole joke was ruined and I DON’T HAVE TIME TO THINK OF ANOTHER ONE.
Now, for a list:
1. Submit your questions to (785) 955-XOXO!
2. Submit your VIDEO QUESTIONS to info@everyoneisgay.com!!
3. We would like to thank Tulip, aka...
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Anonymous asked: Hey, I am a college freshman this year (I'm not out), and I've been thinking about rushing for a sorority. I'm sure it probably depends on what school you're going to, but generally, how queer-friendly are most sororities?
-Thanks for your help! :)
-Thanks for your help! :)
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Anonymous asked: Whats the proper etiquette when bringing a lady home to bone but your roomate is there. I mean she knows im gay so thats not a problem but like i feel weird just dissapearing to my room with my girlfriend, cause i mean of course she knows whats happening. i guess its just weird for me because this is my first roomate. and we arent super close we are just friends of friends that both needed a...
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Anonymous asked: I am 26, a gay girl, and have a raging fear of commitment. I'm the opposite of that lesbian U-Haul joke. But I'm tired of having pangs of terror when people start wanting to get close to me. Help.
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WatchYou guys, we just remembered that we never did our PERSONAL POST PATURDAY!!
Dannielle Says:
“Hey Jealousy”
So, you know when you’re like ‘wow, my friend is sad, I guess I’ll go pick her up from Canada so she can spend the weekend down here.’?!?! NO?! DOESN’T SOUND FAMILIAR?! Well, that’s what my friend, Lauren, and I did last night. It was 8pm...
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Anonymous asked: we have thought for a while that our daughter might be gay, then recently she used my computer and your web site is in the drop down box of visited sites, so i had a look and now we are asking you - should we just ask her outright? we wouldnt have a problem with it at all, we just want her to be happy and feel that she might be struggling to tell us.
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Anonymous asked: have you two ever boned each other? you totally have, am i right?
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Anonymous asked: I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now and it's pretty serious(duh ha) but we hardly get to see each other because she works so much so it's pretty tough. But recently I found out that the friends she hangs around with and goes out dancing/drinking in gaybars with every weekend think she's single. She can't seem to understand why this upsets me, I've asked...
