November 2011
31 posts
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"I'm bisexual. I'm dating two people who are also...
-Question submitted by Anonymous — Dannielle Says:  I know right now you feel totally lost and different and I want to just tell you that you’re not different. You’re not weird. AND you are not alone. At all.  There are about a billion people out there in a successful poly relationship.  I can understand what position your friends are in, I could never be in a poly-ship. If...
Nov 30th
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"How do I deal with loving two people at once?"
-Question submitted by Anonymous — Dannielle Says:  You know, people say this is possible, but I don’t really believe it.  I mean, when Alec Baldwin loved Julianne Moore and Elizabeth Banks in 30 Rock, I sort of believed it, but I always knew deep down he wanted to be with Ansbury Jones(what was her name again?!) wayyyy more, you could just tell.  I think you can love two people,...
Nov 29th
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Nov 29th
288 notes
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"I woke up last night to my roommate having sex....
-Question submitted by Anonymous — Dannielle Says:  ain’t that a bitch.  That shit straight pisses me off, too, I FEEL YOU.  However, where else are they ‘spose to bone? I would probably talk to her and be like ‘liiiiisten, i’m a light sleeper, i heard you boning, it was gross and i never want to experience it again…if you need to bone your boyf, just...
Nov 28th
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Nov 26th
20 notes
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"I know now that I'm a lesbian, but I feel really...
-Question submitted by Anonymous — Dannielle Says: 1. ( . ) ( . ) 2. I’m not one to “check grlz out” but I know that people do it. When I see someone actually LITERALLY look someone up and down and bit their lower lip, i lose respect for that person almost immediately. LIFE IS NOT SHANE FROM THE L WORD, YOU GUYS. Okay, boobs are cool, booties r nice, legs are sweet,...
Nov 25th
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Happpppy Thankssgivvinnnng! May all your turkey be merry and gay. xoxo K&D
Nov 24th
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"So I'm visiting my extended family for...
-Question submitted by thegingerjew — Dannielle Says:  I’m pretty sure Kristin came out to her family by yelling “I AM SORT OF GAY, I THINK” over thanksgiving dinner.  So, you should just do that.  But if you don’t feel comfortable yelling, you could laugh uncontrollably and when your family is like ‘sally mae, are you alright?!” you can just say...
Nov 23rd
62 notes
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"How do I tell my ex I'm seeing someone new? We've...
-Question submitted by Anonymous — Dannielle Says:  I mean, this completely depends on your relationship. If you guys are really good friends, then you have to tell her. If you don’t speak to one another then you don’t really need to say anything. If this is simply a courtesy thing, I would probably shoot her an email that says “Hey, I wanted to let you know I’m...
Nov 22nd
27 notes
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"How do I tell the lady who does my Brazilian wax,...
-Question submitted by Anonymous — Dannielle Says: Now this shit is funny.  You should probably ask her out on a date when her head is between your legs. Orrrrrr you should say “actually I date ladies” and when she peaks up at you from betwixt your legs wink at her with one of those full face winks. You know the wink where you open your whole mouth and tilt your head down...
Nov 21st
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Nov 21st
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Nov 19th
125 notes
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"If I doubt, does that invalidate what I identify...
-Question submitted by Anonymous — Dannielle Says:  No. And Yes. And No. And Yes. And No.  Your doubt, uncertainty, and confusion is totally normal.  We’re all taught to believe certain things when we’re young. Then as we grow up, we start to learn a little more, realize there are more options to what we originally were taught and continue to grow and learn. Everyday we are...
Nov 18th
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Nov 17th
114 notes
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"What do you wear on a first date? Especially if...
-Question submitted by Anonymous — Dannielle Says:  OH GOD I REMEMBER WHEN I DIDN’T WEAR THE CLOTHES I WEAR NOW BUT ALSO DIDN’T WEAR DRESSES AND I NEVER KNEW WHAT TO DO WITH MYSELF.  I owned a lot of spongebob themed clothing, my favorite strawberry shortcake shirt and of course, my closet would not be complete without multiple pairs of flare jeans from old navy…  The...
Nov 16th
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Nov 15th
315 notes
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"I used to feel comfortable with my body but my...
-Question submitted by Anonymous — Dannielle Says:  Dude. I have literally been through the same thing. I once dated a girl who said i could totally be a model if i lost weight. This girl also told me ‘don’t expect her to get any better’ after my mom went into rehab. This is the same girl that wouldn’t talk to me for almost 24 hours bc i wouldn’t agree with...
Nov 14th
61 notes
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PERSONAL POST PATURDAY
Dannielle Says:  You guys… I’m sorry to bring everyone down, but Twilight comes out in a week… NOW I KNOW I SHOULD BE GOING TO A SHOWING THAT STARTS AT 6 AND PLAYS ALL OF THE OTHER THREE BEFORE BREAKING DAWN BUT I CAN’T…Which is the worlds worst news of all time.  Have you guys SEEN TWILIGHT WHEN EVERYONE SCREAMS BC JACOB TAKES HIS SHIRT OFF? It’s a pretty...
Nov 12th
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Nov 11th
34 notes
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"So I have a gay friend who's in the closet, and...
-Question submitted by Anonymous — Dannielle Says: Well, there are multiple ways to handle this, but I want to stress the importance of talking to your friend first. BECAUSE HERE IS THE THING. When I was gay and scared to tell everyone, I just told three close friends of mine who i knew for a fact had huge mouths and let them do the talking for me. I was still technically ‘in the...
Nov 11th
48 notes
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Nov 10th
110 notes
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"I know what I want to do with my life - I'm going...
-Question submitted by Anonymous — Dannielle Says: Duuuuude. I know what I want to do with my life and I’m freaking the fuck out too, and I’m 26…so liiiiiiiike YOU’RE DOING GREAT.  Having a plan like yours is awesome bc you can literally see what you want happening as you take the small steps toward your future. It also means you feel like you have your shit...
Nov 9th
54 notes
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"I like wearing strapons under my pants even when...
-Question submitted by Anonymous — Dannielle Says:  It’s so weird to say “normal gay girl behavior” bc like… wtf is that even?!?!  I don’t really believe in suppressing feelings of any kind. I believe in denial, but like those are two totally different things. You’re asking us if we think deep down inside you, somewhere hidden, you were born a...
Nov 8th
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Nov 7th
87 notes
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"This past week, I was invited to go to the movies...
-Question submitted by Anonymous — Dannielle Says: GOOD ASS QUESTION.  Don’t you hate that? It’s like, he asked you to a movie, so it should be a date right? But at the same time just because you’re a gay boy and he’s a gay boy doesn’t mean you automatically like each other YOU KNOW?!?!?! If I were you, I’d keep in mind that it’s okay not to...
Nov 7th
64 notes
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PERSONAL POST PATURVOTE
Dannielle Says:  Hey dudes, HERE IS THE THING. Recently (in Colorado) there was a kid who wanted to be in girl scouts, and this kid identified as a girl. Bobby was at first turned away when trying to join the scouts bc Bobby was born a boy, but identifies as a girl. UNTIL THE GIRL SCOUTS WERE LIKE ‘WHOA WHOA WHOA WAIT JUST ONE MINUTE IF SHE IS A GIRL SHE IS A GIRL WHO ARE WE TO TELL HER...
Nov 5th
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Nov 4th
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"What do you do when they're the right person but...
-Question submitted by Anonymous — Dannielle Says:  Stop thinking about it.  I know the feeling you’re talking about and I know how obsessive it can make a person. I know that every single text/email/facebookpost/tweet/hairflip means something and I know that the two of you have had the ‘if only’ conversation. I know that you’re trying to figure out in your...
Nov 4th
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Nov 3rd
280 notes
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"How can I watch scary movies without wanting to...
-Question submitted by Anonymous — Dannielle Says:  OMG I AM SO GLAD THIS QUESTION EXISTS.  Until very recently I wasn’t scared in the least bit by scary movies, but for some reason now they terrify me…sometimes. I’ve realized that talking out loud is a really good way of dealing with it. SLASH yelling/screaming. for example….”SHE DOESN’T DIE...
Nov 2nd
59 notes
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"My college roommate is ALWAYS IN THE ROOM. It's...
-Question submitted by Anonymous — Dannielle Says:  You know what, I sort of had the same thing in college. My roommate, was literally the best roommate I could ever ask for. She was nice as shit, fucking hilarious, really easy to talk to and we had coinciding nap times so we could put on Jason Mraz and sleep in the middle of the day. HOWEVER, there were some days where i was just...
Nov 1st
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