Anonymous asked: I recently realized I'm gay and for the most part I'm happy about it. But no matter how many times I watch the Glee version of Born This Way, I'm still sad about giving up the dream of a white picket fence, husband and two kids. How do I get over it?
Anonymous asked: On my online dating profile, I recently changed my listed sexual orientation from "straight" to "bisexual" to reflect the fact that I am interested in women too, even though I am more interested in men. I thought it would be better to be honest. But since I changed it, I get very few messages. I think it is probably because people are afraid that a bisexual person can't be...
Anonymous asked: I am African American. I am also bisexual. I live in a rough city where my sexuality is not celebrated. I'm a musician. I feel like when I'm writing I want to share that part of myself in my music, but I am afraid of the backlash that comes with it. Any advice?
Anonymous asked: My religious parents asked me to give them a list of reasons why I think I'm gay. What should I say that will convince that this is okay? I've already put down the ones that are pretty predictable. (ex: Never liked girls, Always been draw to boys, etc)
Personal Post Paturday
Dannielle Says: WHOOPSIEDOOPS. I TOTALLY FORGOT THREE TIMES IN A ROW TO DO A POST. I guess the long and short of it is, I don’t have anything to write about. The things that stress me out, stress me out. The things that make me happy, make me happy. I’m tired a lot. We have Pride tomorrow. Janet stays in the bedroom bc there’s a fan in there. I finally saw THE BACK-UP PLAN...
kktspecial asked: With NY Pride quick upon us, I've encountered a perspective of it that I hadn't previously considered. Someone very close to me, also gay, is against the concept of Pride as an event and has said "it's inappropriate, backwards, negatively, impacts the gay community and insults the sexuality as a whole." She is put off by many of the overtly sexual aspects, etc. of it and...
Anonymous asked: I know that this isn't relevant to sexuality at all. But you guys are really smart and I look up to you. I feel like killing myself. I've told my closest friends that I want to, only two care. And one is a horse. I feel like the only reason I'm sticking around is for my family. I always feel so ugly, worthless, fat, disgusting, I feel like nothing. The boy I loved hates me and...
Anonymous asked: ohgawd shopping for underwear with my mother is the most awkward thing in the world, but I'm not a shopping-with-friends kind of person and I don't want to settle for the granny panties like she wants me to buy. How do I get her to hand me the money so I can have private prolonged panty-procuring periods?
Anonymous asked: About a year ago, my family found out my dad is gay, and had been sneaking around and cheating on my mom. Recently, I've started accepting the fact I'm a lesbian. The only thing keeping me from coming out to my family is all the homophobia due to my dad's dishonesty. How should I handle this?
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Dannielle Says: Let’s have a conversaysh about being a grown up. First and foremost, tipping movers is ridiculously awkward. It’s literally the exact same feeling I had when I was in the public bathroom with one of my teachers and we were washing our hands at the same time. WHAT DO I SAY?!? Second, I’m like obsessed with living in my new place. It feels like I’m playing...
Anonymous asked: i have a boyfriend i care about a lot but i after hes been trying for a while i end up faking an orgasm because i feel likes hes working hard, is this a bad idea?
skvl asked: My teacher is obviously sexist and homophobic (he rants about womans brains!). He won't even say gay, he actually said 'Elton John is....that..thing'. He's very strongly opinionated, but so am I. I mean, I have girly-parts and I like girly-parts, so double-whammy. I want to say 'hey dinglehead it isn't the 1950's anymore' but I don't want him to be mean...
Anonymous asked: Tell me all of your amazing date ideas.
Anonymous asked: How do I tell my two children (7 and 12) that my best friend is actually my girlfriend? I have been divorced from my husband for three years now. I've raised them to accept people the way they are, but I'm nervous that the divorce and the fact that I'm dating their friend's mother will be all too confusing. Thanks guys!
Anonymous asked: How do I stop being needy? I think I'm driving my girlfriend away. She will probably break up with me soon bc of it.
Anonymous asked: When I had boyfriends, I got all cranky and bitchy with them because I couldn't stand them. I always knew that I didn't want to date them, I just did it anyway. Now that I've admitted to myself that I fancy women and not dudes, I'm worried that I'll feel the same way in a relationship with a girl. Can you help calm my fears? T_T
Anonymous asked: My friends and I are having a bit of a disagreement. I use a menstruation cup because it's environmentally and economically smart. They think it's gross. Can you please convince them that it's not?
Anonymous asked: What's the best way to be supportive of a friend who's just broken up with her girlfriend? Are you supposed to hate on the ex-girlfriend with her, or is that just unhealthy? Are you supposed to defend the idea that it's for the best that the relationship is over, or just let her be sad for a while?
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Dannielle Says: So, basically every saturday i go to type in ‘PERSONAL POST PATURDAY’ and there’s a little drop down that gives me the option to choose ‘PERSONAL POST PATRSEEYOUINSIXHOURSDAY’ and I immediately think of the time I was in Miami with Kristin and we answered a question by the pool BECAUSE LIKE FUCK IT YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE. Which, by the way, is my new...
louisewk asked: I was just wondering whether you thought it'd be a bit weird to come out to my parents through the medium of song and interpretive dance. I mean, it's totally ME if you get me; I tried writing letters but I got nervous and I just randomly wrote a song for it on my ukulele a few weeks ago and now I'm getting edgy cos everyone says that this is like an IMPORTANT THING and I'm...
Anonymous asked: How do I tell my perfect, amazing, semi-religious, Mormon boyfriend that I'm Wiccan?