Dannielle Says:

it sucks because if you would have asked a question about being a gay boy, we would have answered it…and now you missed your chance… 

Kristin Says:

Dear Sir Gay Guy, HOLD ON JUST ONE SECOND.

I know that there are two little cartoons over there on the left of your screen and they have ladies’ names underneath them, and you have deduced from our bios that both Dannielle and I identify as girls and like to kiss/crush on/hold hands with other ladies.

However, that does not mean that we are ‘only directed toward lesbians.’  In fact, we strive to give advice that will be applicable to all people, regardless of their gender identity or sexual preference.

I am sure that you are a very nice gayboy, and you totally like our site but you notice that there is a larger amount of girl-on-girl questions posted (due to the fact that there is a larger amount of girl-on-girl questions submitted), but I want to use you #scapegoat to tell all of our readers a larger message:

HI YOU GUYS.  Falling in love and feeling scared and not knowing how to say “I like you,” and having people say mean things to you and wondering if you have to take a certain gender role in your relationship and wanting to call the guy who’s number you just got at the rollerskating party last week are things that all of us can understand.  I know that there are certain specificities to different relationships, and that there are nuances specific to “lesbian,” “trans,” “straight,” “gay,” and “bisexual” communities, but in my opinion, the more we say things like THIS IS A LESBIAN ONLY SITE or GAY MEN HANG OUT HERE, the further we will all feel from one another.

Dannielle and I answer the questions we get with as much variance as we can locate in our submissions - we have answered trans questions, bi questions, straight questions, etcetera - and when we answer them, we try to do so in a way that everyone can read and identify with on some level.

That all said, we just discovered this adorable gay boy named Davey Wavey who seems pretty smart and does most of his videos with no shirt on sooo….